Pray For Me.....

Hello, to all my faithful blog readers. The past few months I have experienced happiness. One would think that is great.  I have traveled and spent time with family and friends. But underneath all this happiness I have experienced I realize I am unhappy. Not unhappy with friends and family but unhappy with myself. I feel somewhat empty almost like I am missing something. I just do not know what it could be. I am sending this message in hopes that millions will read it and follow through on what I am about to ask. Pray for me. It does not cost you anything. Just take a tiny part of your day to pray for me. Pray and ask God to reveal my destiny to me. Thank you for you prayers and consideration.

Be Yourself.....Regardless

Hey friends and family of the blogging world. I just wanted to drop a few lines of inspiration. Being who you are meant to be is not always easy. People have a habit of judging and assuming who you are. Sometimes we try desperately to change who we are. You may have the outside world fooled but on the inside you are slowly drowning yourself. You are committing suicide slowly. Be yourself regardless of who may not like the real you. The only person that matters is you. When you approach your elder years the only regret you should have is not having one! Enjoy being the wonderful person you are.  "The most unattractive feature about any person. Are the lies they tell themselves." T.W.

Travel With A Purpose

Hello, wonderful people of the world. I usually do not post in the evenings. But I had to tell someone about the lovely women I met today. I stopped to chat to a friend briefly and met two women that  are on a road trip of sorts. They started in California and are planning to end in Alabama. I asked were they on a road trip?  They told me no.  Their  plan is to stop in states along the way to meet family members that they have never met before. This I thought was extremely exciting . Traveling and meeting different people trying different things is fun and you always learn something new about yourself along the way. We as people are always traveling; whether here or there and somewhere in between. I noticed a few years back that rarely as we travel do we have a purpose. Everyone loves to say they need a vacation. But ask yourself what is your purpose for this trip. What is mechanism that keeps you in constant motion. What is the real reason you are traveling. We spend our whole lives constantly in motion and eventually getting nowhere. As with the two lovely ladies I met today they are traveling with a purpose to meet the family they have never meet. To finally meet the DNA that made you and meet the roots of the family tree is a great purpose. I did not get the wonderful women names but I do wish them safe travel and plenty of excitement along the way. " It is better to travel with a purpose than to travel with no known destination."- T.W.

I am LOVED

Good morning world. My day has started bright and early but that does not bother me. I was lying in bed asking myself what shall I tell the world today. I thought, I wondered and I pondered.  It came to me with a smile upon my lips and flutter in my heart.  For the past year or so I have fell in love with myself. I have found the little quirks about me that makes me truly  unique. Just as I have found the wonderful things about me, I have found the things about me that needs improvement! For the first time in many years I am happy. I struggled for years trying to figure out why I was not loved. I listened to so many self books and tapes that I could probably start my own library. What I find so humorous now it that the answer was always staring me right in the face when ever I looked in the mirror. You see if you do not love yourself it is impossible for any one else to love you. You have to get to know the person you were and the person you have become. You can not expect love to engulf you in its embrace unless you love yourself first. When you love yourself you know exactly how you want to be loved by others. If you take nothing from this post today please take this small bit of information. Love is timeless its embrace will always warm you on the coldest days and cool you during those days where the heat has no mercy. It will always be their waiting with open arms ready and willing to console you. But first you must learn to unlock loves door. If you look in the mirror the key will be staring back at you. So, I ask you when was the last time you told yourself I LOVE YOU?  "Perhaps the key to unlock the solution is YOU" -TW

A QUOTE To Consider

Hello, wonderful people of the world. Last year I purchased a little black book that I decided I would write personal life notes to my daughter. I plan to give the book to my daughter upon graduating high school.  When I started writing the life notes I did not realize at the time I was writing quotes. I like quotes because they are usually packed with great lessons.  The first quote I wrote was as follows:

  "Someone who holds onto the Past as if there is no Present in their Future. Is much like a Hoarder. Who is unwilling to let go of the things that makes no progress towards progression." T.W.

I have written several quotes but this quote will always be my favorite quote. When I wrote it I was going through so much emotional turmoil in my life. My marriage had fallen apart and I found myself a single parent. And I just seem to get nowhere no matter how hard I tried. I realized my life was at a stand still because I had not let go of my past. I have learned that if you cannot let go of your past it is impossible to have a future that does not repeat your past.  So, I hope that this quote will touch someone to let go of the past and release yourself to your future.  "Change is the only Constant the Variable agrees with." - T.W.

Are You Afraid Of SUCCESS

Good afternoon good people of the world.  I hope your day is progressing wonderfully.  I asked are you afraid of SUCCESS because it has occurred to me recently that I just may be afraid of SUCCESS.  A few years back I went through a ugly divorce and started to shut myself out from the world. I eventually started to pull myself through. I remember praying and asking God to surround me with positive people in my life and God, has more than surrounded me with positive people. He has surrounded me with encouraging and successful business women. I encounter these women on a daily basis and I try to assist them with small things that will enhance their businesses. I have a up close view of how to be successful. But yet I am afraid of it.  After giving it much thought and consideration I have come to this conclusion.  This may come as a shock to several but I am afraid of my talent.  It scares me to go out on that limb of allowing people to make a choice of whether they want to purchase what I have to offer.   It is so astonishing to see how people have such confidence in me and yet I have none in my own self. I have been searching for my purpose and destiny for some time now and now believe it has been revealed to me on more than one occasion. But I have allowed fear to conceal it from my view. Success and faith are like ying and yang, there is no one without the other. In order for me to be successful I first need to understand that faith is the root of success and without the root the success can never be. So, to any one else out there that may be going through what I am. Pray and ask God to strength your faith so that you are able to accept your purpose and destiny.

Learn to VALIDATE Yourself

Hello, good people of the world. I actually stop writing on my blog because I felt that no one read it. You see I was searching for validation through how many people I could get to follow my blog. So,  I decided to test my own faith and put myself out there and ask my fellow facebook friends to follow my blog. My goal was to have a minimal of ten people following my blog within thirty days. I discovered that my faith was not as strong as I had assumed. Out of thirty days only one person made any attempt to follow my blog. You see I love writing it is a way for me to escape the world of reality. I felt like a complete failure that I could not even reach the attention of ten people through my writing. So, I stopped writing altogether. I have not written since my last post in February. I went to work today thinking about the word VALIDATION, it has been clawing its way through my mind nonstop lately. And I could not figure out what I was suppose to be doing with the word VALIDATION. It was really starting to annoy me. I love words they can be warm and loving and extremely deadly all in one breath. So, for the word VALIDATION to just claw its way through my mind was really ripping me apart on the inside. So, I go to work hopping that familiar faces will take my mind off the word VALIDATION. A good friend and mentor  out of the blue asks me about my blog and why I had not written anything. She mentioned a older post of mine titled "S.A.R.A.H." I was shocked. I did not know that she had read most of the posts. That particular post is very close to my heart. It is weird because my heart started to beat as if it wanted to come out of my chest. You see it suddenly occurred to me that reason why VALIDATION has been  in a vivid memory of my mind lately, it is because all this time I thought VALIDATION was stalking me, it turns out I was the one stalking VALIDATION. Searching high and low for someone to validate my writing. I have discovered that VALIDATION starts with your self first. You, have to  have faith that your special talent is for you and that you are great at doing it. You have to praise yourself first before anyone else can. So, to my good friend and mentor whose name I will not mention because I did not get permission prior to me writing this post. I thank you so very much for showing me that it does not matter how many people read the blog it only matters that I believe what I wrote. So, good people of the world. I am BACK!!!
Always remember "It is impossible for others to believe in your ability. If you, yourself do not believe in your ability first" T.W